Two weekends ago Jan and I did some spring cleaning. We carted off a few hundred books to our local library (no, they were not overdue—we were donating them!) and worked on decluttering our basement. Jan unearthed a box of my social theory books (Environmentalism and Cultural Theory, anyone?), and I quickly discovered that underneath the top layer of books was a plastic storage bin. Even though I haven’t thought about it in a few years, I instantly recognized it.
Jan and I were married in a small town in Vermont where all of the various event-service people know each other. Our flowers were done by a woman named Nancy Murray at A Schoolhouse Garden, and we liked and trusted her so much that we didn’t bother working out a detailed list of each and every type of flower that would make its way into the arrangements. Rather, we settled on the number and type of arrangements, as well as a general sense of the flowers: in our case, we wanted something autumnal, though of tapestry (reds, blues, purples) rather than harvest (reds, oranges, golds) hues.
Nancy did not disappoint and created beautiful arrangements of white roses, fresh herbs, freesia, snapdragons, and wildflowers. Jan and I liked everything so much that, even though we hadn’t originally planned to do this, on the morning after our wedding, when Nancy arrived to retrieve the pots, we asked if she could dry and preserve my bouquet. “Sure!” she said, and took it away with her, telling us we’d get it in about two months.
Four months later, it hadn’t arrived, so I wrote her a note asking about it. She replied that she had indeed sent it out several week after our wedding, but thought that perhaps USPS delays caused by post-September 11th scares might be the culprit. She suggested waiting a bit longer to see if it might show up, so we did. Two months after that, I wrote to her that it still hadn’t arrived and was clearly lost for good, and asked her how much it would cost to recreate and (re)preserve the bouquet. I never heard back from her.
Near the end of the summer, a box arrived in the mail. It contained a plastic storage bin, and through its translucent walls I could see a small bundle amid bubble wrap and packing peanuts. There was also a note from Nancy. She had redone (and dried) the bouquet and mailed it to me. At no additional charge.
Yes, there are still very kind people in the world. The next time someone cuts me off in traffic or some politician utters another lie or I encounter unpleasant behavior, I’ll just remember Nancy’s gift to me, and that will go a long way toward making me feel better about humanity.
